Q. What types of contraception have you used in the past?
A. I’ve been on a few different things, like the vaginal ring and the pill, but they didn’t fit into my routine.
Q. Is that important to you when choosing a contraceptive?
A. Oh definitely, yeah. It’s a big choice and what you choose needs to work for you and your life. My contraception has got to fit with my life and routine.
Q. What else is important to you in a contraceptive?
A. I also need a lack of commitment, so nothing long-term would suit me. And protection against STIs is a huge one. Oh, also I’m not a fan of anything messing with my hormones. I think it’s all about responsibility – both on me and the other person. Contraception is all about responsibility, that’s really important to me.
Q. Based on all that, what contraception are you using?
A. I use condoms. It’s easier for me than other contraceptives. You know, I’m not in a long-term relationship so I don’t want to commit to anything super long-lasting. And like I said, I don’t want something that adjusts my hormones – so condoms are the one for me.
Q. What made you choose condoms?
A. It’s funny, I came to the realisation that my friends were talking a lot about what they use. Like all of a sudden everyone was taking this real, active role in the contraception choices, so I decided to evaluate mine. I went to a sexual clinic, because I think it’s best to talk with specialists, and we talked it out. With what I was looking for and my needs, condoms are perfectly suited to me.
Q. Do you have any concerns about using condoms?
A. I suppose the big thing is trust – that’s definitely a concern. You’ve got to trust your sexual partner. But that’s just a simple chat, no messing around.
Q. When it comes to contraception, does spontaneity matter to you?
A. I know what you’re getting at, and yeah some people think condoms ruin ‘the moment’, but if you’re prepared it’s not a big deal. I just make sure condoms are part of my carry kit – tampons, lipstick, keys, condoms. And during ‘the moment’ it’s nothing to put one on.
Q.Brilliant, thank you. Finally, do you have advice for other people about contraception?
A. Sure! I think the main thing is that it’s OK to try different methods. You don’t have to suffer through choices that aren’t right for you. Have proper, honest, conversations with your partner. Also, break the stigma – talk about your contraception more. It’ll help you and other people.